If you are using EDSMAC for a crash simulation, the adjustment for Inter-vehicle Friction is located by selecting Options, Calculation Options on the main menu. You will clearly find the adjustment of Inter-vehicle Friction in the Calculation Options dialog.
If you are using EDSMAC4 or SIMON/DyMESH, the adjustment for Inter-vehicle Friction is found by first selecting a vehicle, then selecting Set-up, Vehicle Mesh. The third section of the Vehicle Mesh Options dialog allows the user to assign the Inter-Vehicle Friction value between the current vehicle and other vehicles in the simulation.