If you are using EDSMAC for a crash simulation, the adjustment for Inter-vehicle Friction is located by selecting Options, Calculation Options on the main menu.  You will clearly find the adjustment of Inter-vehicle Friction in the Calculation Options dialog.

 

If you are using EDSMAC4 or SIMON/DyMESH, the adjustment for Inter-vehicle Friction is found by first selecting a vehicle, then selecting Set-up, Vehicle Mesh.  The third section of the Vehicle Mesh Options dialog allows the user to assign the Inter-Vehicle Friction value between the current vehicle and other vehicles in the simulation.